In Queensland, when the police make a Domestic Violence (DV) application, it’s like they’ve officially decided you’re in danger even if you’re still dating the guy and planning a Bali trip together.
That’s right: the cops can, and often do, file a DV protection order without your blessing, like some hypervigilant, legally-armed fairy godparent who just saw too many red flags and called in an airstrike. Their job isn’t to wait for victims to say “please help,” it’s to prevent homicide, so when they spot DV, they don’t ask for permission. They grab the forms, slap on the authority, and march it straight into court like they own the place. Because they kind of do.