For married couples, the Family Law Act lets you make a financial agreement before, during, or after marriage. You can even whip one up while on your honeymoon if you’re feeling particularly romantic and full of distrust. These agreements must comply with sections 90B (before marriage), 90C (during marriage), and 90D (after divorce). For de facto couples, just to keep it spicy, we use sections 90UB, 90UC, and 90UD, respectively; because why use logical naming conventions when we can mimic Xbox gamer tags?
Now, let’s talk about how BFAs differ from property consent orders, which are the beige slacks of the family law wardrobe. Consent orders go through the court and require approval to make sure they’re “just and equitable” – which is legalese for “are you two being ridiculous or is this actually fair?” BFAs, on the other hand, don’t need court approval but do require that both parties get independent legal advice and sign a certificate saying they understand what horrifying financial swamp they’re voluntarily stepping into. Basically:
- consent orders are like having a referee during your break-up; and
- BFAs are like signing a waiver before skydiving with your ex, and both of you are packing the other person’s parachute.
And yes, the laws for married and de facto couples are nearly identical, but with some subtle differences. For example, you can’t just claim you were in a de facto relationship because you both liked the same Netflix shows. You need to prove a “genuine domestic basis,” which sounds like a fancy way to say you owned a NutriBullet together. The court might even look at the duration of the relationship, financial interdependence, and whether your families knew you were “a thing” before giving you access to the legal breakup buffet.